ALICE PERLE

RESOLVE: A STORY OF COURAGE, HEALTHY INQUIRY AND RECOVERY FROM SIBLNG SEXUAL ABUSE

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Resolve, what I have learned

Since 2023, this blog has held regular reflections, early journal notes and context around Resolve and sibling sexual abuse. New writing is now continuing on Substack, where longer reflections can…

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8 January 2026

Dropping the Christmas Bombshell

'We can’t have change without loss, which is why so often people say they want change but nonetheless stay exactly the same.' LORI GOTTLIEB, PSYCHOTHERAPIST & AUTHOR

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9 December 2025

Step Back From the Cauldron

In the 1990s, that decade where my three children were born, there were three women who were part of a family system I was walking close to. I wasn’t trying…

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14 November 2025
  • The bigger picture of sibling sexual abuse

    The Bigger Picture of Sibling Sexual Abuse

    8 February 2024 /

    Sexual abuse involving child siblings is thought to be the most common form of intra-familial child sexual abuse, perhaps up to three times as common as the sexual abuse of a child by a parent.

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    Unpacking the National Centre for Action against Child Sexual Abuse report

    Unpacking the National Child Sexual Abuse Attitudes Study

    2 July 2024
    LISTEN TO YOUR HEART: RESISTANCE IS THERE TO PROTECT US

    Embracing Resistance: How I Learned to Trust, Honour, and Love My Way Through Writing Resolve

    6 February 2025
  • Is Forgiveness Real? Resolve by Alice Perle

    Is Forgiveness Real?

    1 February 2024 /

    Alice Perle invites readers to her blog series in February, sharing her eclectic healing process from sibling sexual abuse, including hypnotherapy experiences. During hypnotherapy, she explored forgiveness, visualising release from emotional ties, realising that forgiveness is not excusing abuse but freeing herself. Despite progress, she acknowledges her ongoing healing journey, coping with repressed memories and cPTSD, and considering various healing modalities. Her memoir, "Resolve", details her path to recovery and is available in multiple formats.

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    Leading Through Unresolved Trauma: Frameworks for Founders

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    Repercussions of Sibling Sexual Abuse on Our Life

    29 May 2023
    Forgiveness by repairing

    Forgiveness Through Repairing: A New Perspective

    20 August 2024
  • Disclosing to mum didn't go well

    Disclosing the abuse to Mum

    2 January 2024 /

    Extract from one of the draft versions of Resolve, 2022. Some of this was cut from Chapter 3 The Problem with Disclosure. Whilst it did not make the final manuscript, I flagged it as content to share as a blog. The cited information from the Center of Expertise on Child Sexual Abuse report was valuable to me for my understanding of where things went wrong for Mum and me. I vividly recall summoning up the courage to tell Mum as I walked in the same front door I used to dread walking through on all those school day afternoons for years. This was not a happy mother-and-daughter conversation we were…

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    I made it. Resolve was in print.

    When Are You?

    19 September 2025

    Seeking Validation and Forgiveness When There’s No Remorse

    20 January 2025
    Finding Your Voice Breaking the Silence

    Finding Your Voice: Breaking the Silence and Moving Forward

    29 August 2024
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