ALICE PERLE

RESOLVE: A STORY OF COURAGE, HEALTHY INQUIRY AND RECOVERY FROM SIBLNG SEXUAL ABUSE

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Resolve, what I have learned

Since 2023, this blog has held regular reflections, early journal notes and context around Resolve and sibling sexual abuse. New writing is now continuing on Substack, where longer reflections can…

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8 January 2026

Dropping the Christmas Bombshell

'We can’t have change without loss, which is why so often people say they want change but nonetheless stay exactly the same.' LORI GOTTLIEB, PSYCHOTHERAPIST & AUTHOR

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9 December 2025

Step Back From the Cauldron

In the 1990s, that decade where my three children were born, there were three women who were part of a family system I was walking close to. I wasn’t trying…

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14 November 2025
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    Sibling Sexual Abuse Knows No Bounds

    11 December 2023 /

    Sibling sexual abuse knows no bounds. The bigger picture of sibling sexual abuse is enormous. It has occurred in past and present generations, regardless of family, religion, financial status, or the community in which children are raised.

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    Stop Downplaying It: That Was Your Childhood Experience

    28 November 2023 /

    Stop downplaying what was… As a child do you remember when the parents lined us up against the kitchen doorframe? They’d tell us to put our heels against the wall and stand tall and straight. Then when we stood still, they would put a pencil mark against the wall to show how tall we were. Beside the mark, the height and date were added denoting the milestone. To me, it felt like such a treat. Funny as it is to say that, given it was just a measurement of height. A moment of parental presence, perhaps? I did the same measurements with my daughters. As we moved homes I wrote…

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    Seeking Validation and Forgiveness When There’s No Remorse

    20 January 2025
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    13 January 2025
    New buds of spring in the dappled light. Reminds me of the words of the Slow Dance Poem, Alice Perle

    Slow Dance Poem

    12 March 2024
  • The latch-key kid era was like serving up a little mouse to a cunning cat

    The latch-key kid generation was a game of cat and mouse

    7 November 2023 /

    The latch-key kid generation I was a part of was like serving a little mouse up on a platter to a cunning cat. Mindful, of course, that cats don’t like to eat their prey; they prefer to stalk and play with them a little first. There was plenty of time for the cunning cat to play with his little mouse in the hours after school and before a parent arrived home by around five or six pm. Alice Perle (2023) Resolve, Chapter One, Young Alice’s Story. Easy access to siblings makes it more likely that an adolescent abuser (who can be just as predatory as adult abusers) will choose someone…

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    Dropping the Christmas Bombshell

    9 December 2025
    The tug of war game with our inner child resisting our desire to share our story in a memoir

    Handle Your Resistance

    29 February 2024
    I stopped running Alice Perle blog

    Part Two: I Stopped Running

    27 September 2024
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