ALICE PERLE

RESOLVE: A STORY OF COURAGE, HEALTHY INQUIRY AND RECOVERY FROM SIBLNG SEXUAL ABUSE

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Resolve, what I have learned

Since 2023, this blog has held regular reflections, early journal notes and context around Resolve and sibling sexual abuse. New writing is now continuing on Substack, where longer reflections can…

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8 January 2026

Dropping the Christmas Bombshell

'We can’t have change without loss, which is why so often people say they want change but nonetheless stay exactly the same.' LORI GOTTLIEB, PSYCHOTHERAPIST & AUTHOR

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9 December 2025

Step Back From the Cauldron

In the 1990s, that decade where my three children were born, there were three women who were part of a family system I was walking close to. I wasn’t trying…

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14 November 2025
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    You come from a good family, Alice

    26 October 2023 /

    ‘You come from a good family Alice’, my 90-year-old neighbour from our childhood street said in 2019. I looked at her blankly and thought: A good family. What does that even mean? I was eight when my big brother began sexually abusing me. Unbeknownst to me, I wasn’t the only sibling he was abusing in one way or another. None of us knew that. We didn’t disclose it to each other until we were in our 20s and 40s. How could that have been? How did my mum, dad, grandparents or neighbours not see that? From the outside, we looked like a good family, a happy Catholic family, living in…

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    When it comes to my book, I'm ready to crack myself open right down the middle and let all the words and feelings leave my body. I'll do it first in writing.

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