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Resolve, what I have learned
Since 2023, this blog has held regular reflections, early journal notes and context around Resolve and sibling sexual abuse. New writing is now continuing on Substack, where longer reflections can live together in one place and be shared more easily. You can read the first transitional post on Substack here:resolvebyaliceperle.substack.com
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Dropping the Christmas Bombshell
'We can’t have change without loss, which is why so often people say they want change but nonetheless stay exactly the same.' LORI GOTTLIEB, PSYCHOTHERAPIST & AUTHOR
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Step Back From the Cauldron
In the 1990s, that decade where my three children were born, there were three women who were part of a family system I was walking close to. I wasn’t trying to join them. They were just regularly in my space. The system clearly had a tough history, there were hard edges, a mean girls vibe, they shared intergenerational trauma that had not been resolved, and invisible rules. A family. A triangle. A trio as such.
