ALICE PERLE

RESOLVE: A STORY OF COURAGE, HEALTHY INQUIRY AND RECOVERY FROM SIBLING SEXUAL ABUSE

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Resolve, what I have learned

Since 2023, this blog has held regular reflections, early journal notes and context around Resolve and sibling sexual abuse. New writing is now continuing on Substack, where longer reflections can…

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8 January 2026

Dropping the Christmas Bombshell

'We can’t have change without loss, which is why so often people say they want change but nonetheless stay exactly the same.' LORI GOTTLIEB, PSYCHOTHERAPIST & AUTHOR

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9 December 2025

Step Back From the Cauldron

In the 1990s, that decade where my three children were born, there were three women who were part of a family system I was walking close to. I wasn’t trying…

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14 November 2025
  • A Step Forward in Understanding Sibling Sexual Abuse and Its Impact on Parents

    27 December 2024 /

    With 2024 about to close, I couldn’t move forward without acknowledging a publication from people I communicate with weekly at 5WAVES in the USA. For many of us in this weekly blog community, sibling sexual abuse (SSA) is a subject that has shaped our lives. However, it remains one of the most pervasive and under-researched forms of abuse, leaving survivors and families navigating their trauma in silence. I recall when releasing Resolve that I felt like I would never read a research paper again! Yet, to the contrary, I’ve developed an even deeper appreciation for the healthy inquiry I began while writing Resolve. My curiosity and determination to understand all…

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    27 November 2024 /

    This week, I’m sharing something deeply personal and important on the Resolve by Alice Perle YouTube channel: the full audio of Chapter Two from my book, Resolve: A Story of Courage, Healthy Inquiry and Recovery from Sibling Sexual Abuse. You will find the link at the end of this blog. Why this chapter? When I started writing Resolve, I couldn’t find information about sibling sexual abuse. Even the word “incest” was difficult to research. This lack of resources became a revelation—and a painful one. Sibling sexual abuse is a taboo topic, shrouded in secrecy, shame, and silence, much like I had been as a child. Chapter Two, Demystifying Sibling Sexual…

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